December 11th, 2007
12th
Queen Suet says:
tomorrow!!
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
gasp!
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARYYYYYYY
Queen Suet says:
YESSSSSSSSSSS
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
HOW MANY YEARS EDI?
Queen Suet says:
I DUNNOOOO
Queen Suet says:
1?
Queen Suet says:
2?
Queen Suet says:
U TELL ME!!
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
NOOOOOOOO
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
GIVE YOU ONE MORE CHANCE WTF
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
MORE THAN 2
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
LESS THAN 4 WTF
Queen Suet says:
OH 2.5?!?!?!?1
Queen Suet says:
RIGHT!?!?!?
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
NOOOOOOOOOOOO
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
THREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
IT WAS A TOUGH ONE, YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE GUESSED THAT WTF
Queen Suet says:
HAHAHHAHHAH WTF
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
i love you suet
Queen Suet says:
i love you too babyyyy
Are we not the most sohai couple you’ve ever seen wtf. Anywayyy this is supposed to be a super extra damn kao emo entry so everyone, stop laughing/smiling/giggling and start crying now ok!
I already talked about how we met in my first year post but if you didn’t read me back then and are too lazy to read the post, it’s okay cause being the overly emo person that I am, I’m gonna write about it again.
They say love at first sight does not exist but it happened to me. Of all people, Cupid picked me. I was but a lost soul, staggering around in a restaurant taking orders from impatient customers, running back and forth to the kitchen with hands full of plates and a smile perpetually plastered on my face. Smile like you mean it! My manager used to say. I am, M’am, I AM!
And so that day it was for me. I was smiling like I truly absolutely completely meant it, but my arms had betrayed me and had gone weak and so I told all the other servers that I’ll be taking orders from now on. They protested but I won eventually cause I’m a girl and girls are supposed to kick ass like that. So it was the 12th of December 2004, a Sunday, and there I was trying to earn an honest income during my Form 4 holidays when I met the love of my life. Of all places, it was in a restaurant and of all people, it was me, the waitress and him, the customer.
Cupid, did you really mean to strike that arrow deep in my chest, or was it meant for someone else? Did you miscalculate the velocity and distance of the fatal blow or were your eyes really on me?
I went up to him after his dinner with his family and chatted casually. Later that night, he found me on friendster (thank god for friendster) with the only tidbit of info that I gave during our chat, my school’s name. He sent me an impressive message saying that he was the guy whom I served lasagna to and I was like wtf I serve 12167 lasagnas a day but after that, we clicked right on. Before this, I’d been dating people who were wayyy below my league. Guys who can barely speak English, guys who were stupider than they look, guys who try too hard to be all that. So when I finally found a guy who shared the same sense of humor, who spoke wayyy better English than I do, I did the stupidest thing ever.
I asked if he would like to watch the sun rise with me, after only 4 days of chatting with him, with no clue about where he lives/where he’s from/who he really is/what his surname is/if he has a dog. He said ok he would love to and he came to fetch me later around 5am.
I know smack me in the head! I dunno why! I guess it was cause my parents went to Korea and it was absolute freedom for me and I just didn’t know how to deal with such freedom. Kids, do not attempt such an act ever ok. You only get one shot in life and 9.99/10 times, you’re most likely to meet a weirdo/rapist/serial killer than the love of your life.
And I guess I got lucky again. So we met, we talked, and it was extremely enjoyable. The intended purpose of the excursion was defeated cause amidst all that excitement of telling my whole life story to a complete stranger, the sun rose behind us without us knowing it. =.= Anyway after that date, he asked if I’d like to watch planes take flight with him and the adventurous me said YES cause if he didn’t rape me the first time, why would he do it the second time riiiight? wtf. So off we go to KLIA and again, we talked so much that we missed the turn to klia and landed up in negri sembilan wtf. A completely different state =.= why are we so sohai even from we first met!
Determined to watch the planes take flight, we took a u-turn all the way back to Subang and then to KLIA again. Hello Uncle Ooi, sorry your son wasted so much money on petrol wtf. He was but a lost soul..wtf. So we reached KLIA and found the perfect spot cleverly named “the rooftop garden”. It was a beautiful night and the stars were all out so we just stood there looking at planes and stars and talked again for like..3 hours wtf.
At one point, I started telling him about how one of my exes almost raped me and I said LISTEN TO THIS WTF I ALMOST DIED LAUGHING THINKING ABOUT IT. I said quote I don’t know if I’m able to love again unquote and LISTEN TO THIS HAHAHHA as if what I said wasn’t stupid enough, he replied..ok cis he doesn’t want me to tell the whole world for fear of losing his macho status wtf so sorry everyone looks like you have to die not knowing what he said =(
And then we kissed the end wtf. It was really sweet cause we were both waiting for it to happen for the past 3 hours and when it did, it was almost magical. The stars seemed to shine brighter than ever, the planes seemed to have stopped roaring, the world stopped moving and time seemed to have stopped.
After that, I guess we just considered ourselves a couple without all that “will you couple with me” thing HAHAH nostalgia nostalgia. Who would’ve thought that two people who met at a most unlikely place would last so long eh? Well we didn’t expect it to turn out this way too but we’re not complaining!
So to my boyfriend, my best friend, my soul mate and the love of my life,
Happy 3rd. I love you. I love you I love you I love you.
I want to go through life with you, I want to grow old with you, I want you to hold my hands with every step I take, and I want to be there holding your hands in return. We complement each other so well that it seems almost impossible to find someone else for us. So I want to thank you. Thank you for loving me, thank you for not giving up on me when I was difficult, thank you for not giving up on this relationship, and thank you for not letting the distance kill us. You already gave me the best 3 years of my life, why not another 3 more? and 10 more? and 50 more?
I’m going to tell you how much I love you every single minute of the day until you get sick of it.
And then I’ll tell you some more.
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awww,so suettt!!!=)
i’m so happy for you there are tears gleaming in my eyes!!! no la not that drama but SERIOUSLY damn happy for you guys. happy 3rd to you and barry!
I READ YOUR 1st anniversary post! =D back then I also remember thinking that you’re so lucky and you guys are so sweet together. and to think there was a second, and now THIRD aniniversary post. =D
you’re sooooo lucky. and u guys are so good together that I’m so envious but at the same time also damn happy coz you guys have proven that soulmates do exist!
dear god, may all the sad and single people find what barry n suet have eventually. wtf
and i look forward to reading ur 4th anni. post! and 5th! … and so on =D
chun hor we two. i love you, happy anniversary.
ohh.. really sweet. actually i rem when i 1st started reading ur blog, i was kaypo enough to dig ur archives to find out how u & Barry got tog but i din rem the details… thanks for recapping!
I envy both of u, & think u are really matching (tho i dunno both of u in person).
ps. treasure the love. make each day count.
it’s really sweet, happy anniversary to you and barry
Sweet!
Happy anniversary to the both of you
awwwww…
i love u too happy anniversary to us of being friends wtf wtf.
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAA
wah omg today’s filled with good jokes i tell you! and me re-reading ur convo with barry adds to the list HAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAHAHA GOOD ONE SUET! WTF.
and happy 3rd you two =)
wow 3 years! =D congrats
omg u guys are so sweet to each other! =)
the most inspiring couple la!
congrats on ur third year =)
damn jealous lah, sien.
Inspiring, as always.
Here’s to many more years of happiness and kudos to the both of you!
haha ur conversation is so cute !
(you might even have served me in pizza uno then but i dont know.. =P)
aw….This is soooooo cute….u make me miss my bf even more….XD
HEHEHE! I feel so geli, tingly and warm inside
Many more years to you and Barry *clings Diet Coke cans*
:D
yer i can’t stop smiling i look damn bodoh also grinning at the pc like watching porn wtf.
*just to irk Suet* Hello everybody I’m Paris let’s go pole dancing with Britney tonight. Dresscode: Commando wtf.
No la ngam ngam terserempak in the previous post mah. and u sound damn emo in ur “suicide” post okay. Und ah? Oh btw ytd i dreamt tht I met you in US and u were wearing Maxis baju trying to sell me a 3G plan wtf. and this is waifon ok not paris hilton and tonight everybody pls wear undies cos we’re not going pole dancing afterall. I knw britney, britney dsnt knw me wtf. pole what la pole.
I am almost crying right now wtf.
How sweet and how silly are the both of you haahhahaah!!!
Like you being so convinced he wasn’t likely to be a second-time rapist cos he wasn’t a first-time rapist wtf.
And ending up in Negeri Sembilan instead of KLIA wtf.
You’re both so lucky to have found each other. And even better, you’re not going to squander this chance.
Here’s to many many more anniversaries ahead =)
awww…gosh thats so sweet of you
happy anniversary to you both,& many more anniversaries to come =)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
=)
I wish there are infinite years for you guys together!
happy anniversary all the way from.. laos!!
man damn long never read your blog.
Happy 3rd anniversary ma and pa wtf
:,) Thank goodness Barry has stalking tendencies
Here’s to Bazsuet
Haha so sweet! It’s like a story out of the movies
hepi anniversary!
looking forward for my first year anniversary too which is in 2 months :D:D
*jiwang*
happy anniversary ooib and suet. of course ooib has stalking tendencies la he’s related to aud wtf
that has got to be one of the SWEETEST post i’ve ever read!
happy 3rd.
happy 3rd babe.
OMG WE’R THE SAME !! i coupled with my bf because of a kiss too *blush
and you guys got together in 4 days ?! and i thought mine was shorter cos i coupled with him in 8 days
til now (:
keaton, suet?! suet is =.=” la wtf. anyway thanks!
liz, awww why are you so sweeeeet! thanks T_T
baz, i love you too baby
yoyo, haha u really read my archives ah! thanksss =D
eff, thanksss!
jac, thanks =D
rachel, =D
aud, we where got friends for 3 years edi!
eeflin, very funny meh! why so easy to make u laugh one! you’re a maid. laugh lah laugh lah! wtf
yun, thanksss =D
kei, heh were you the same person who drew our portrait last time?
sd, why u sien wtf
jessie, thanks jessie!
me, haha the taipan one? ya i worked there for some time so if u go there often you might’ve seen me before.
ailing, sigh i miss him tooo! i mean my bf not yours wtf
waifon, wtf wtf! porn wtf is that why u became paris hilton wtf. cause u just watched her porn.
paris, why u damn wtf one! u can take my role as the sweat queen edi wtf =.=
michelle, aww u really read everything eh? thanksss =D
suet, hi suet wtf like talking to myself. thankss =D
riina, aww infinite years is a lot!! thanks!
clem, halo i was quite worried for you for a while until i saw your post. fuh. thanks!
jam, hahah ya man we always think about what if he didn’t bother to stalk me then we wouldnt have gotten together!
mel, heh really? thanks!
fern, congrats to you too =D
tze, wtf ya good point!
schmae, very sweet meh! thanks for reading =D
lulu, thanks =)))
cass, coupled wtf. erm yeah about 4 days to 1 week like that lah. eh you and ur bf how long edi? where is he? aust?
sweet suet xD
will continue reading once i got home wtf
er huh?portrait?i dont think so..
awww….so sweet!! happy anniversary!! and guess what? my 3rd anniversary is 3 days after u..on the 15th..muahahaha~!!
jioh damn romantic-nyerrrr. my story damn ciplak i am so embarrased to tell ppl also. but watever lah what matters most is finding someone you want to give your all to right right!
happy anni!
hey suet. 3 years is a long time,what more long distance relationship. *bows*
So sweet and romantic. =)
Wish you all the best, and more anniversaries to come. =)
hellO! happy 3rd anniversary to barry manilow and suet!
i cannot pass 2 years. the only time i will pass two years of relationship is when i get married hahahaa.
ozzy osbourne wtf. i like your iron man song wtf
i just like the quote”Sometime you find goodthing in the most unlikely places”..Well,it is a quote from The Terminal but ur story is just a bit like tat..haha..really sweet..Happy Anivesary to both of you this sweet couple ya…
wow…just wow…i hope i can get that kind of love sometime soon.
y am i always stranded with someone i dont love…and who dont love me. did this make any sense? =.=”
anyway, very romantic and sweet though there are like 4X comments repeating this. Hope to be here on ur 4th, 5th —50th anniversary to congrat u and him. ~
Awww..sweeeett…
hee congrats!
3 years is a good milestone
I read all three are you happy!
Super jealous of you guys la why are some people so lucky >___>
hi, can i know where is the “rooftop garden”? is it at the carpark?
Sweeet!!
Happy 3rd to both of u!
Best wishes!
=(
just broke up with my gf… inter-religious relationship really takes it tolls…
OMG reading your replies to those comments made me laughed so hard til i spit saliva all over my laptop . thanks -__-
i’ve been with him for 2 years and 5 months plus . he’s in perth now doing training as cadet pilot under SIA .
why am i telling the whole world about my r/s -__-
Happy Anniversary to both of you!
I’m sure both of you will last long. (durable.. wtf.. =p)
Happy 3rd anniversary! Heh.
Next year I’ll come back to wish both of you the 4th, and the 5th and so forth.
Congrats!!
hallo jess! eh honestly, as one of suet’s closest friends, what did you think of me when i first started dating suet? has your opinion of me changed since?
and the rooftop garden is erm not really sure where, cos i took awhile to find it. there are signs, but they’re confusing. i think you gotta take the carpark elevator up to the top floor or something
that is one sweet, sweet entry, and yeah everyone else said that already, but i still wanna leave a comment. haha!
happy anniversary!
usagi, so, read edi ah?
kei, oh sorry wrong person WTF. his name is kei too =.=
cryst, woot congrats too! mine is 12/12, nicer!
eevon, right..right *terpaksa wtf
i think u told me your story before..tell again lah!
missycheerio, heh thanks =) it’s hard but well..
lovie, thanks! =D
ozzie, haha there there love is blind wtf
kimfei, heh ya how true. thanks =D
michael, haha why so tragic one your story! wtf. nvmlah i believe everyone will find their soulmate one. good luck and thanks!
dolly, thanksss
keshia, they say the 3rd year is the hardest but we did it! so now it’s the 4th year..we’ll see.
skyler, wah my big fan-sy wtf. dont worry i think everyone will find their soulmates some day..good luck wtf
missy, ermmmm it was so hard to find it too. i think it’s above one of the carparks but i’m not too sure. look for signs!
kate, thanksss =D
ffiera, sigh ya those things are hard..sorry =(
cass, very funny meh my replies! aiseh what to do im born funny wtf. oooh sia how nice! marry him and you’ll be rich! and can fly for freeee! woot.
=), durable wtf. thanks anywayssss
jessie, thanks love =)
esther, thanksss =DDD
awwwwwwwwwww happy anniversary !!!!
THIS IS SO SWEET !!
I will read u your anniversary posts on ur wedding wtf as my speech
congrats!! wish you have many more to come….
Happy Anniversary to you both =)
Wld be most thankful if you guys cld let me know regarding where specifically did you all watch da planes took flight? Was it at the Rooftop Garden, or was it at a different area?
Thanks =)
haha yes taipan one and i went there so often during that time
angie, wtf how can!! then i’ll google “wedding poems” and read for your wedding wtf.
crash, thanks =DD
anonymous, it was at the rooftop garden but i don’t remember how to get there anymore!
me, haha i miss pizza uno too =(
This brought tears to my eyes…thanks for writing it! It’s very touching and completely made me miss my boyfriend…who’s really far away right now:(
era, =DDD thanksss sorry i made u miss your bf more =(
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this is so funny yet sweet!! wish the both of you all the best! How I wish i can meet the girl of my dreams this way lol. Anyway I’m a new reader of your blog, and I loving it already. lol looking forward to your next post. =)
wtf..really sweet u know..may god bless ur relationship…
hepi anniversary!!…..its really sweet..
It was like a fairy tale, touchy and sweet
P/s: first time here, wil become one of your blog reader from now onwards
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