12th

Queen Suet says:
tomorrow!!

Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
gasp!
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARYYYYYYY
Queen Suet says:
YESSSSSSSSSSS

Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
HOW MANY YEARS EDI?
Queen Suet says:
I DUNNOOOO

Queen Suet says:
1?
Queen Suet says:
2?

Queen Suet says:
U TELL ME!!

Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
NOOOOOOOO
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
GIVE YOU ONE MORE CHANCE WTF
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
MORE THAN 2
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
LESS THAN 4 WTF
Queen Suet says:
OH 2.5?!?!?!?1

Queen Suet says:
RIGHT!?!?!?

Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
NOOOOOOOOOOOO
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
THREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
IT WAS A TOUGH ONE, YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE GUESSED THAT WTF
Queen Suet says:
HAHAHHAHHAH WTF

Barry Ooi Eu Hock says:
i love you suet
Queen Suet says:
i love you too babyyyy

Are we not the most sohai couple you’ve ever seen wtf. Anywayyy this is supposed to be a super extra damn kao emo entry so everyone, stop laughing/smiling/giggling and start crying now ok!

1st year post, 2nd year post.

I already talked about how we met in my first year post but if you didn’t read me back then and are too lazy to read the post, it’s okay cause being the overly emo person that I am, I’m gonna write about it again.

They say love at first sight does not exist but it happened to me. Of all people, Cupid picked me. I was but a lost soul, staggering around in a restaurant taking orders from impatient customers, running back and forth to the kitchen with hands full of plates and a smile perpetually plastered on my face. Smile like you mean it! My manager used to say. I am, M’am, I AM!

And so that day it was for me. I was smiling like I truly absolutely completely meant it, but my arms had betrayed me and had gone weak and so I told all the other servers that I’ll be taking orders from now on. They protested but I won eventually cause I’m a girl and girls are supposed to kick ass like that. So it was the 12th of December 2004, a Sunday, and there I was trying to earn an honest income during my Form 4 holidays when I met the love of my life. Of all places, it was in a restaurant and of all people, it was me, the waitress and him, the customer.

Cupid, did you really mean to strike that arrow deep in my chest, or was it meant for someone else? Did you miscalculate the velocity and distance of the fatal blow or were your eyes really on me?

I went up to him after his dinner with his family and chatted casually. Later that night, he found me on friendster (thank god for friendster) with the only tidbit of info that I gave during our chat, my school’s name. He sent me an impressive message saying that he was the guy whom I served lasagna to and I was like wtf I serve 12167 lasagnas a day but after that, we clicked right on. Before this, I’d been dating people who were wayyy below my league. Guys who can barely speak English, guys who were stupider than they look, guys who try too hard to be all that. So when I finally found a guy who shared the same sense of humor, who spoke wayyy better English than I do, I did the stupidest thing ever.

I asked if he would like to watch the sun rise with me, after only 4 days of chatting with him, with no clue about where he lives/where he’s from/who he really is/what his surname is/if he has a dog. He said ok he would love to and he came to fetch me later around 5am.

I know smack me in the head! I dunno why! I guess it was cause my parents went to Korea and it was absolute freedom for me and I just didn’t know how to deal with such freedom. Kids, do not attempt such an act ever ok. You only get one shot in life and 9.99/10 times, you’re most likely to meet a weirdo/rapist/serial killer than the love of your life.

And I guess I got lucky again. So we met, we talked, and it was extremely enjoyable. The intended purpose of the excursion was defeated cause amidst all that excitement of telling my whole life story to a complete stranger, the sun rose behind us without us knowing it. =.= Anyway after that date, he asked if I’d like to watch planes take flight with him and the adventurous me said YES cause if he didn’t rape me the first time, why would he do it the second time riiiight? wtf. So off we go to KLIA and again, we talked so much that we missed the turn to klia and landed up in negri sembilan wtf. A completely different state =.= why are we so sohai even from we first met!

Determined to watch the planes take flight, we took a u-turn all the way back to Subang and then to KLIA again. Hello Uncle Ooi, sorry your son wasted so much money on petrol wtf. He was but a lost soul..wtf. So we reached KLIA and found the perfect spot cleverly named “the rooftop garden”. It was a beautiful night and the stars were all out so we just stood there looking at planes and stars and talked again for like..3 hours wtf.

At one point, I started telling him about how one of my exes almost raped me and I said LISTEN TO THIS WTF I ALMOST DIED LAUGHING THINKING ABOUT IT. I said quote I don’t know if I’m able to love again unquote and LISTEN TO THIS HAHAHHA as if what I said wasn’t stupid enough, he replied..ok cis he doesn’t want me to tell the whole world for fear of losing his macho status wtf so sorry everyone looks like you have to die not knowing what he said =(

And then we kissed the end wtf. It was really sweet cause we were both waiting for it to happen for the past 3 hours and when it did, it was almost magical. The stars seemed to shine brighter than ever, the planes seemed to have stopped roaring, the world stopped moving and time seemed to have stopped.

After that, I guess we just considered ourselves a couple without all that “will you couple with me” thing HAHAH nostalgia nostalgia. Who would’ve thought that two people who met at a most unlikely place would last so long eh? Well we didn’t expect it to turn out this way too but we’re not complaining!

So to my boyfriend, my best friend, my soul mate and the love of my life,

Happy 3rd. I love you. I love you I love you I love you.

I want to go through life with you, I want to grow old with you, I want you to hold my hands with every step I take, and I want to be there holding your hands in return. We complement each other so well that it seems almost impossible to find someone else for us. So I want to thank you. Thank you for loving me, thank you for not giving up on me when I was difficult, thank you for not giving up on this relationship, and thank you for not letting the distance kill us. You already gave me the best 3 years of my life, why not another 3 more? and 10 more? and 50 more?

I’m going to tell you how much I love you every single minute of the day until you get sick of it.

And then I’ll tell you some more.