Anyway, I have witnessed a 10 years relationship blossomed into marriage and (happily married with 2 kids). Takes a lot of hard work and compromise to make it happen.

Suet, dont look at the years. Our grandparents and parents (at times) didnt have the luxury to shop around for their life partners. If finances are in order and your mind is ready to settle down to live together till death you part, so be it and carpe diem.

As spending the rest of your life with the one you truly love is a feeling no words can describe it but best to revel in its full glory.

Though we only get to see each other for around 3 and a half months in a year, it’s like we have always been together and we would just pick up where we left off during our last meeting…
So I would say that it’s all up to you Suet…
But seeing the way that you need your Baz, I would say things are looking pretty good for the future…

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR SUET!!!

i guess ppl change as they grow older, and unless ur partner happens to change in the same way as u, u may well grow apart. what works when ur 18 is different from what works when ur 22. the question is whether u want to put the time in and wait till ur properly together one day to find out if u can live with each other everyday (which is very different from living with each other during fun holidays), or if u want to call it a day now and trust that you’ll each find the right one for u (even if it does turn out to be the same person a few yrs down the line).

about ur question, i think its possible. i mean u urself already mentioned last time that u had alot of bf’s b4 rite? so u have checked out the market already. haha~

but i guess it would be a good idea to try to see other ppl and see how that works out.that way u’ll either know why barry is soo right for u compared to the rest… or it mite be the opposite =p

Oh no clem! You didn’t save! I wanted to ask you for the pictures. sobs, nvm lah.

Remember our plan- you’ll marry Barry and live next door to me, with Aud and Tze on either sides

Then our kids can marry each other /boo

At least I don’t show everyone my angpaus.

Teehee

anyway, it’s not necessary to get married also, partly is because i don’t believe in it. then you both can date each other forever which is far more romantic.

of course it’s yes but i haven’t found anyone i can live with for the rest of my life yet so i say no. need to experience it first hand first.

Regarding the Thelma reply, you are both in single sex schools not so bad hahaha.

And who is that Justin person ah I hate him

liz, haha i only proved 3 years leh, still so many yeard to go! ahhah thanks now i know what to do wtf

justin, hey gong xi too =) wahh 9 years?? very long leh! i already had long distance for 2 years now, and gonna be doing that for the next 3 years too sigh. hahaha i’m sure she is too =)

deity, taking a break? why? sigh i hope things turn out better for both of u =(

tze, hahaha dunno what to say wtf i guess it’s not really about knowing who you really want..it’s a lot on circumstances also la in your case. =(

clem, hahaha aiseh nvmla u can take my pics here! damn chun right i can get angpow through webcam wtf

ron, sigh i dunwan that to happen la but we’ll see. and yeah i think the making your partner fall in love again and again is a good idea. ahhah nvm your comment very meaningful wtf now i’m thinking of ways to ignite the passion wtf

huiwen, ok let’s have the deepest chat ever about this wtf and oh ya our anniversary is the same hor! /boo

cass, haha ya we only see each other once every 3 months or so but it’s not now, i’m just worried about the future u know. sigh dunno why am i worrying abt that also havent happened yet also. i guess cause nothing to worry about edi wtf cari masalah sendiri wtf

vss3t, hmmm that;s really sweet. ya i’m quite worried about the being together just cause we don’t know how to live without the other person anymore, not cause we’re still in love but thankfully we never had that problem yet. i think giving yourself some time off is good too and in your case, it really went well la. nola where got loh soh! very meaningful ok wtf

Thelma, EH OMG YOU DO SOUND LIKE THE REAL THELMA!!! Honestly, are you really the real thelma?? Anyway after thinking about your question, I really really don’t know how to answer that. But if you always think there’s a better guy out there, then you’ll never appreciate what you have and always want to look for someone else right? What if in the end you realize that that someone else is actually the first guy you were with? And now he doesn’t want you anymore? So what will you do then?

both of us started to wonder whether we’re supposed to be meant for each other and madly in love, or are we just too comfortable with each other’s presence, thus still being a couple, ie just a habit of being together.

we decided to give each other some time [3 days], but only to find myself wailing and crying and sobbing to my best girlfriend — not because how silly i gave him grace periods, but only to realise how much he means to me in my life. That 3 days were horrible to both of us, but gave us a clear mind and good thoughts for our future relationship.

And I have to say, he’s the best thing ever in my life, with Marc Jacob bags following after him. =)

good luck to you and barry, and wish you guys the best!

p.s: why my comment so lo-so one!

but i guess if it’s me i think i’ll never get bored of seeing my bf since i’ve been with him for almost 3 years with us having LDR most of the time. after this, it’s gona be even worse ): but i’m positive, still

plus babe you guys don’t see each other often right? webcam don’t count.

i’m sure you guys would keep making the r/s alive and last forever.

And oh ya, anniversary on Tuesday, HAHAHA!

or u might stop loving him becos u found someone else that is able to take over his place, and probably give u more? i dont know la, sounds like crap hahahaha.

but i believe that everyone should make their other half to fall in love with again and again, to keep their relationship ignited. it seems like people get too used and comfortable to their partners easily, that’s why their relationship starts to get stagnant and eventually stale?

must always ‘upgrade and upgrade’ or they’ll run away man. and serves them as a warning that u’re still very desirable in other men’s eyes.

sorry ah very long comment.

but ah well at least you got save a few pics =D and yeah im always very amazed with technology.

My girlfriend and I are celebrating our 8th Valentines together next week and it’ll be our 9th anniversary this coming June. We do argue a lot but after a while it’ll be alright. I guess we are the rare breed.

P.S. In between our relationship, I went to England for 1 year, so I’ve had a long distance relationship with her for one year.

P.S.2. She is my first love. I am her first love too.

P.S.3. Throughout these years, I am 100% monogamous. I dunno bout her lah…hehe…

actually i know lots of couples who date like 10 yrs n stay together even after such a long time … but not all of them have been 100% monogamous over the period of time la wtf