Comments on: Surviving the distance http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/ Wed, 23 May 2012 02:15:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Teena Mcnichols http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-51366 Teena Mcnichols Sun, 24 Oct 2010 14:41:59 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-51366 I agree your viewpoint. My research has shown your points to be true, but I have also heard the opposite from different sites like this one. Do you have any recommendations for locating more savvy ideas on travel tips or related topics? I would certainly appreciate it! I agree your viewpoint. My research has shown your points to be true, but I have also heard the opposite from different sites like this one. Do you have any recommendations for locating more savvy ideas on travel tips or related topics? I would certainly appreciate it!

]]> By: biba http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-21133 biba Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:57:09 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-21133 OMG..... same here, it's been 4 months since my bf left and i can really really really relate to those fight-make up,fight-make up thingy. lol. like, you get mad and ask for a break up then eventually ull realize how much you love him. *cheers* for our patient partners though :D *sigh* i wish we could be together soon... i wish we're together on christmas and new year,plus his birthday =( anyway...this post is awesome ;) 10/10 OMG….. same here, it’s been 4 months since my bf left and i can really really really relate to those fight-make up,fight-make up thingy. lol. like, you get mad and ask for a break up then eventually ull realize how much you love him. *cheers* for our patient partners though :D

*sigh* i wish we could be together soon… i wish we’re together on christmas and new year,plus his birthday =(

anyway…this post is awesome ;) 10/10

]]> By: Girl http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-20432 Girl Sun, 18 Oct 2009 13:29:31 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-20432 I am totally agree with you ! tumb up !! I like this post very much and i am sOoo jealous wondering why my ex will not think like your Baz i hope he can read this >.< I am totally agree with you ! tumb up !!
I like this post very much and i am sOoo jealous
wondering why my ex will not think like your Baz
i hope he can read this >.<

]]> By: Noel http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-9819 Noel Thu, 05 Mar 2009 05:33:42 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-9819 At the very least, you held on and a relationship is always a 2 way thingy. It takes 2 to clap, no distance is too far if you really do want this relationship. I went through a failed long distance relationship months ago and I'm still trying to recover from it where I still feel like breaking down and giving in to all these emptiness I'm feeling without my other half. It impresses me how much effort both of you put into this relationship. Hang on when there's sad times, there's no obstacle that's impossible to pull through if two person does it hand in hand ;) all the best. At the very least, you held on and a relationship is always a 2 way thingy. It takes 2 to clap, no distance is too far if you really do want this relationship. I went through a failed long distance relationship months ago and I’m still trying to recover from it where I still feel like breaking down and giving in to all these emptiness I’m feeling without my other half.
It impresses me how much effort both of you put into this relationship.
Hang on when there’s sad times, there’s no obstacle that’s impossible to pull through if two person does it hand in hand ;)
all the best.

]]> By: Louv http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8960 Louv Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:03:04 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8960 guess what, i've had 3 LDRs previously. and guess what again? i'm havin my 4th. so yea, quickly be happier already because it's 4 times suckier for me. hahaha. guess what, i’ve had 3 LDRs previously.
and guess what again? i’m havin my 4th.

so yea, quickly be happier already because it’s 4 times suckier for me. hahaha.

]]> By: Rachel http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8886 Rachel Mon, 02 Feb 2009 15:06:55 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8886 Hey there... I'm really like, relieved to read this post of yours. Not to say I'm happy about your unhappiness or anything like that but I'm just glad that this isn't the case for my bf and I alone! Okay fine we're living apart in the far ends of a state but man, we are already experiencing the same shit. Except the time zone difference. But we're both encouraged by your post, so thanks lots for writing that! And all the best with your boyfriend! :) Hey there… I’m really like, relieved to read this post of yours. Not to say I’m happy about your unhappiness or anything like that but I’m just glad that this isn’t the case for my bf and I alone! Okay fine we’re living apart in the far ends of a state but man, we are already experiencing the same shit. Except the time zone difference. But we’re both encouraged by your post, so thanks lots for writing that! And all the best with your boyfriend! :)

]]> By: Judy http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8836 Judy Fri, 30 Jan 2009 14:30:38 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8836 hey suet.im a reader of yours haha.n i used to blog but not anymore.anyway i reli admire u n ur bf's love for each other.im new in LDR cz my bf recently left for germany for his studies and im goin to NZ in feb.so we'll b 12 hours apart.from your post i can tell it's goin to b reli difficult as it ady is now and i think bout him all the time.your post inspired me to work harder in our relationship bcz if u can make it then y cant i? =) keep up the good work suet.dun let the passion between u n ur guy die and show others that LDR isnt impossible. hey suet.im a reader of yours haha.n i used to blog but not anymore.anyway i reli admire u n ur bf’s love for each other.im new in LDR cz my bf recently left for germany for his studies and im goin to NZ in feb.so we’ll b 12 hours apart.from your post i can tell it’s goin to b reli difficult as it ady is now and i think bout him all the time.your post inspired me to work harder in our relationship bcz if u can make it then y cant i? =) keep up the good work suet.dun let the passion between u n ur guy die and show others that LDR isnt impossible.

]]> By: chiqolatez http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8811 chiqolatez Thu, 29 Jan 2009 05:35:59 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8811 Hey, I just stumbled across this and I can't help leaving a comment.. Cos I've been in an LDR with my bf for almost 2 years now (Aust-Malaysia). Everything you've said here is EXACTLY true! Hahahaha.. THe bitch fits and the emo-ness and the breaks.. But kudos to you guys, I'm glad to see someone else goes through the same thing as me and makes it through stronger! Hey, I just stumbled across this and I can’t help leaving a comment.. Cos I’ve been in an LDR with my bf for almost 2 years now (Aust-Malaysia). Everything you’ve said here is EXACTLY true! Hahahaha.. THe bitch fits and the emo-ness and the breaks.. But kudos to you guys, I’m glad to see someone else goes through the same thing as me and makes it through stronger!

]]> By: chloe http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8793 chloe Tue, 27 Jan 2009 14:50:33 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8793 it helps to know that there're other people going through what i am going through as well. and it's also comforting to know u're not alone sometimes... at least i don't feel like my relationship is THAT dysfunctional cause we do fight a lot about the distance. i guess it's normal and we just have to work things out. it helps to know that there’re other people going through what i am going through as well. and it’s also comforting to know u’re not alone sometimes… at least i don’t feel like my relationship is THAT dysfunctional cause we do fight a lot about the distance. i guess it’s normal and we just have to work things out.

]]> By: shirley http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8747 shirley Sun, 25 Jan 2009 02:35:57 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8747 a really meaningful post. but I broke with my LDR bf because things aren't going right and it was just a few hours BEFORE reaading this post ): a really meaningful post. but I broke with my LDR bf because things aren’t going right and it was just a few hours BEFORE reaading this post ):

]]> By: FrOzEnStAr http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8742 FrOzEnStAr Sat, 24 Jan 2009 10:30:31 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8742 long story short, nearly exact same thing gone through... just without the daily communication. msn... nearly none cause he don't online much... sms.. if i sms him... but I can see myself being with him so I guess I should hold on? no idea @@ wth... thinking about it always makes me insane! p/s: i came all the way from msia to sydney to be nearer to him =) he is based in melbourne tho after mufy in msia @@ long story short, nearly exact same thing gone through… just without the daily communication. msn… nearly none cause he don’t online much… sms.. if i sms him… but I can see myself being with him so I guess I should hold on? no idea @@ wth… thinking about it always makes me insane!

p/s: i came all the way from msia to sydney to be nearer to him =) he is based in melbourne tho after mufy in msia @@

]]> By: jc http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8741 jc Sat, 24 Jan 2009 10:21:28 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8741 Your post came just in time. Thanks for giving ppl like me- single for about a year, and on the verge of giving up on love completely, and then this nice guy comes along but he's based in Melbourne - HOPE. i spose if you really see something different in the dood, the LDR is survive-able :) You rock girl. Dont stop writing, ever. Always so sincere with your writings, and i totally adore the whole love in in ze air thing between you and Barry. Hugs xx. Your post came just in time.

Thanks for giving ppl like me- single for about a year, and on the verge of giving up on love completely, and then this nice guy comes along but he’s based in Melbourne – HOPE.

i spose if you really see something different in the dood, the LDR is survive-able :) You rock girl. Dont stop writing, ever. Always so sincere with your writings, and i totally adore the whole love in in ze air thing between you and Barry.

Hugs xx.

]]> By: weiqi http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8719 weiqi Fri, 23 Jan 2009 04:42:26 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8719 from ur blog only i know they are many people out there with successful LDR..this give me confident that LDR can work too.. stay strong suet..jia you =) from ur blog only i know they are many people out there with successful LDR..this give me confident that LDR can work too..
stay strong suet..jia you =)

]]> By: Erandi http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8714 Erandi Thu, 22 Jan 2009 21:55:59 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8714 Thanks for this post Suet....my boyfriend's leaving Malaysia on vacation tomorrow. So I've been having a major crying spells the past few days and we just had a major disagreement too. Now, I feel like a complete wuss after reading what you wrote but it also makes me feel like I am not alone in all the weird, conflicting and intense emotions I experience. Hugz and thanks :) Thanks for this post Suet….my boyfriend’s leaving Malaysia on vacation tomorrow. So I’ve been having a major crying spells the past few days and we just had a major disagreement too. Now, I feel like a complete wuss after reading what you wrote but it also makes me feel like I am not alone in all the weird, conflicting and intense emotions I experience. Hugz and thanks :)

]]> By: concerned party http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8711 concerned party Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:18:23 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8711 Sleeping is not for the weak. Not sleeping makes u weak and more prone to emo-ness Sleeping is not for the weak. Not sleeping makes u weak and more prone to emo-ness

]]> By: leanne http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8710 leanne Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:12:35 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8710 that's great :) I've been in three LDRS: two Malaysia-Japan and one Canada-America. Sucks, yes it does, but having a wonderful man like you do makes it so much better. linked here from my cousin sue anne's blog. that’s great :)
I’ve been in three LDRS: two Malaysia-Japan and one Canada-America. Sucks, yes it does, but having a wonderful man like you do makes it so much better.
linked here from my cousin sue anne’s blog.

]]> By: Baz http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8709 Baz Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:05:45 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8709 Stephanie: ummm Stephanie: ummm

]]> By: Stephanie http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8707 Stephanie Thu, 22 Jan 2009 07:13:49 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8707 HEY ask ur bf to read ur blog. =D HEY ask ur bf to read ur blog. =D

]]> By: Divz http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8706 Divz Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:38:25 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8706 hahaha..nice try...n nice name!!...nope my name is thiveya...err..which i still dont think u remember..i was in 6 cemerlang...wth!..i think..hahah...u noe wats the best part...i still remember ur voice..because i think its unique..i can remember stuffs like dat till i die..hahaha.. hahaha..nice try…n nice name!!…nope my name is thiveya…err..which i still dont think u remember..i was in 6 cemerlang…wth!..i think..hahah…u noe wats the best part…i still remember ur voice..because i think its unique..i can remember stuffs like dat till i die..hahaha..

]]> By: liwen http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8705 liwen Thu, 22 Jan 2009 00:57:42 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8705 LDR is always hard but keep on going ok? I've been like that for 4 years and now I am finally back home and decided to stay with my boy. So, be strong. I am a sensitive person and I know how it feels when you cant find your bf but having LDR you have to take it and just accept it also get used to it. Life is like that, so keep on going...support you here.... LDR is always hard but keep on going ok? I’ve been like that for 4 years and now I am finally back home and decided to stay with my boy. So, be strong. I am a sensitive person and I know how it feels when you cant find your bf but having LDR you have to take it and just accept it also get used to it. Life is like that, so keep on going…support you here….

]]> By: jean http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8704 jean Wed, 21 Jan 2009 17:56:34 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8704 ahh *hugs* yay suet li =D ahh *hugs*
yay suet li =D

]]> By: Ee Von http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8703 Ee Von Wed, 21 Jan 2009 17:28:30 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8703 we should be named the luckiest girls ever for having bfs who nvr give up. cheers :) we should be named the luckiest girls ever for having bfs who nvr give up.

cheers :)

]]> By: devina http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8702 devina Wed, 21 Jan 2009 17:11:25 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8702 *stands up and claps crazily* T_____T *stands up and claps crazily* T_____T

]]> By: sha http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8701 sha Wed, 21 Jan 2009 13:56:40 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8701 graduated so left for good. and ofcourse not, ill see him over the summer =) 5 months only wert *omg* anyway reading all these comments from ur readers, u should be very proud of urself. so much love! graduated so left for good. and ofcourse not, ill see him over the summer =) 5 months only wert *omg*

anyway reading all these comments from ur readers, u should be very proud of urself. so much love!

]]> By: theaussiezombie http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8700 theaussiezombie Wed, 21 Jan 2009 10:31:32 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8700 Man, I've been insomniac lately too, well more like since I've been in LA. Takes me at least 45mins, sometimes up to and hour and a half to go to sleep. And when I do sleep, it's always restless sleep. Hoooww... I've got a job interview Friday morning, die. Regarding LDR, i've been there too. LDR with the bf for about 2 years. I'm here with him in LA now and our 2 year anniversary will be on Valentine's day. :) Persevere and patience is the key, i think. And of course, true love, cheesy but yeah. Man, I’ve been insomniac lately too, well more like since I’ve been in LA. Takes me at least 45mins, sometimes up to and hour and a half to go to sleep. And when I do sleep, it’s always restless sleep. Hoooww… I’ve got a job interview Friday morning, die.

Regarding LDR, i’ve been there too. LDR with the bf for about 2 years. I’m here with him in LA now and our 2 year anniversary will be on Valentine’s day. :) Persevere and patience is the key, i think. And of course, true love, cheesy but yeah.

]]> By: Mabel http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8699 Mabel Wed, 21 Jan 2009 09:30:01 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8699 Hehe, don't be so emo. But when I read your post...I actually think that what you are writing is reflecting me and J's life. Our relationship is 'part-time' long distance. Well, trust and perseverance is most crucial. We can do this Suet Li. Hehe, don’t be so emo. But when I read your post…I actually think that what you are writing is reflecting me and J’s life. Our relationship is ‘part-time’ long distance. Well, trust and perseverance is most crucial. We can do this Suet Li.

]]> By: Jade Zheng http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8698 Jade Zheng Wed, 21 Jan 2009 08:04:15 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8698 want to CNY dee! dun so emoe kay? ;) want to CNY dee! dun so emoe kay? ;)

]]> By: jessieloi http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8697 jessieloi Wed, 21 Jan 2009 07:33:03 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8697 *hugs* *hugs*

]]> By: mg http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8696 mg Wed, 21 Jan 2009 07:01:49 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8696 yes he is :) ur post is really an inspiration to all LDR couples out there. :) yes he is :) ur post is really an inspiration to all LDR couples out there. :)

]]> By: sweatlee http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8695 sweatlee Wed, 21 Jan 2009 06:44:13 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8695 steph, yeah im really glad he never gives up. =D on9, why u say enjoying haha more like suffering T_T sohpoh, ya it's always like tht lor! hate it grr. lalala, glad it helped =) yeah i do that sometimes and he'll get emo =( but not as emo as i am when he does it haha im so double standard. but we dont do it too much la, only sometimes melissa, thanks!! aww good luck too =) sga, what u mean when u left for good?? so u guys are gonna be separated forever? =((( irene, yeah true it works for all rships. well said..well said. haha all about love so corny hor. but it's true sigh yuhhui, yeah it really sucks and i agree, absence does make the heart grow fonder but i rather do without it still huiwen, i think we're really lucky we found guys like tht lor huiwen T__T kylie, aww thanks! good luck T_T debra, why u FTW!! 3 weeks omg damnnn long right! i dont think i can stand not talking for 3 weeks lor i'll go crazy! 3 days also wanna die edi. divz, wht's ur name! try me my memory is good. ok lemme guess from ur nickname..deeviana ? hahah i dunno just guessing k! i was in 6 kreatif...i think. or aktif? ying, thanks =DD lind, i hope it helped! aww dont cry so much T_T u can do it. dont think about it too much, just try your best. the more you worry the more pressure u're putting on the rship( and on both of u) so just let things go naturally. if it doesnt work then only deal with it later. it's not wrong la to get mad but i think we girls have to be more understanding sometimes. i can be really sensitive too and i really hate myself for it so i try to change but its damn hard la T_T YES LDRs do work im a living testament to that wtf. it's totally ok for u to feel tht way but i hope u hold on a little bit more, if the guy is worth it. good luck to you =) michelle, yeah i think im lucky sometimes. thanks =) cruel, aww im so sorry T_____T sigh ldrs really suck lynn, im so glad this post helped so many people..i think all the comments bring tears to my eyes wtf dman emo. thanks and good luck to u too =) xiangyun, awww why u so nice!! wuwuw im so touched T_T dont worry despite me saying i've learnt my lessons blabla im actually still a very difficult gf hahaha. aww so nice u both read my blog! seriously im so touched la. good luck ok! ping, hello! yeah it's not completely worth it but it's worth holding on.. pammy, hello =) aww thanks for your virtual hug! eh dont day that! u do deserve someone for you! everyone does. thanks again you're so sweet. tracy, it's so nice to hear stories from other LDR couples too! good luck to u too ok jaclyn, yeah totally understand..good luck! ^_^ voon, ya seriously im such a light sleeper also lor! i used to be a pig dunno why like that now T_T thanks for your encouragement! emily, im sorry T_T i have friends who did that too and i feel very very sad cause they havent even tested it out how would they know it wont work! if you still love each other please pleaseee try it? i hope i'll hear good news from you =( sherlyn, ldr is long distance relationship! hhaha. no worries! steffie, hello! i really hope everything goes well with you. good luck ok! alice, awww thanks i do want a hug now! discotheque, hahah go read all laaa! thanks! lf, thanks =D sigh dont ldrs really suck! fel, haha! thanks! yeah tht post will be really interesting lor! aud, awwwwwwwwww why u so sweet!!! i cant wait to plan for our future together u know =))) steph, yeah im really glad he never gives up. =D

on9, why u say enjoying haha more like suffering T_T

sohpoh, ya it’s always like tht lor! hate it grr.

lalala, glad it helped =) yeah i do that sometimes and he’ll get emo =( but not as emo as i am when he does it haha im so double standard. but we dont do it too much la, only sometimes

melissa, thanks!! aww good luck too =)

sga, what u mean when u left for good?? so u guys are gonna be separated forever? =(((

irene, yeah true it works for all rships. well said..well said. haha all about love so corny hor. but it’s true sigh

yuhhui, yeah it really sucks and i agree, absence does make the heart grow fonder but i rather do without it still

huiwen, i think we’re really lucky we found guys like tht lor huiwen T__T

kylie, aww thanks! good luck T_T

debra, why u FTW!! 3 weeks omg damnnn long right! i dont think i can stand not talking for 3 weeks lor i’ll go crazy! 3 days also wanna die edi.

divz, wht’s ur name! try me my memory is good. ok lemme guess from ur nickname..deeviana
? hahah i dunno just guessing k! i was in 6 kreatif…i think. or aktif?

ying, thanks =DD

lind, i hope it helped! aww dont cry so much T_T u can do it. dont think about it too much, just try your best. the more you worry the more pressure u’re putting on the rship( and on both of u) so just let things go naturally. if it doesnt work then only deal with it later.
it’s not wrong la to get mad but i think we girls have to be more understanding sometimes. i can be really sensitive too and i really hate myself for it so i try to change but its damn hard la T_T
YES LDRs do work im a living testament to that wtf. it’s totally ok for u to feel tht way but i hope u hold on a little bit more, if the guy is worth it. good luck to you =)

michelle, yeah i think im lucky sometimes. thanks =)

cruel, aww im so sorry T_____T sigh ldrs really suck

lynn, im so glad this post helped so many people..i think all the comments bring tears to my eyes wtf dman emo. thanks and good luck to u too =)

xiangyun, awww why u so nice!! wuwuw im so touched T_T dont worry despite me saying i’ve learnt my lessons blabla im actually still a very difficult gf hahaha. aww so nice u both read my blog! seriously im so touched la. good luck ok!

ping, hello! yeah it’s not completely worth it but it’s worth holding on..

pammy, hello =) aww thanks for your virtual hug! eh dont day that! u do deserve someone for you! everyone does. thanks again you’re so sweet.

tracy, it’s so nice to hear stories from other LDR couples too! good luck to u too ok

jaclyn, yeah totally understand..good luck! ^_^

voon, ya seriously im such a light sleeper also lor! i used to be a pig dunno why like that now T_T thanks for your encouragement!

emily, im sorry T_T i have friends who did that too and i feel very very sad cause they havent even tested it out how would they know it wont work! if you still love each other please pleaseee try it? i hope i’ll hear good news from you =(

sherlyn, ldr is long distance relationship! hhaha. no worries!

steffie, hello! i really hope everything goes well with you. good luck ok!

alice, awww thanks i do want a hug now!

discotheque, hahah go read all laaa! thanks!

lf, thanks =D sigh dont ldrs really suck!

fel, haha! thanks! yeah tht post will be really interesting lor!

aud, awwwwwwwwww why u so sweet!!! i cant wait to plan for our future together u know =)))

]]> By: aud http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8694 aud Wed, 21 Jan 2009 06:17:53 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8694 :( seriously after a total of 2 1/2 years of LDR i never want to be away from my other half again. i guess it's easier once you've both finished studying and settle somewhere so you can plan, like really plan for your future together:) i love you and i do want you to be my sister in law /shy :(

seriously after a total of 2 1/2 years of LDR i never want to be away from my other half again. i guess it’s easier once you’ve both finished studying and settle somewhere so you can plan, like really plan for your future together:)

i love you and i do want you to be my sister in law /shy

]]> By: fel http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8692 fel Wed, 21 Jan 2009 02:56:59 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8692 good post suet, seriously not bad for an insomniac! wtf.=) indeed it's a tough battle, and sometimes you feel you're at the losing end, but you pulled through. props to barry's persistence and your "soft" heart. hehe. all the best to both of you! :) ooo.. suet 101. that will be interesting barry! good post suet, seriously not bad for an insomniac! wtf.=)

indeed it’s a tough battle, and sometimes you feel you’re at the losing end, but you pulled through. props to barry’s persistence and your “soft” heart. hehe.

all the best to both of you! :)

ooo.. suet 101. that will be interesting barry!

]]> By: LF http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8689 LF Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:24:17 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8689 hello!i love what you wrote,and could feel for it,im sure you and barry can make it through,cuz you two are meant for each other!when you think someone is worth spending the rest of your life with,do all you can to keep the relationship going and things will work out for you two...soon you two will be united laaa,no worries:D ps:wahahaha...my bf is really patient with me too when i shut myself off from him...haihya when we graduate we may have to do a LDR too... hello!i love what you wrote,and could feel for it,im sure you and barry can make it through,cuz you two are meant for each other!when you think someone is worth spending the rest of your life with,do all you can to keep the relationship going and things will work out for you two…soon you two will be united laaa,no worries:D

ps:wahahaha…my bf is really patient with me too when i shut myself off from him…haihya when we graduate we may have to do a LDR too…

]]> By: Discotheque Dudek http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8688 Discotheque Dudek Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:03:35 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8688 That's a super loooooong post. I nv even manage to read finish. But all I know is..., hang on there girl! Bless your relationship, bless it good! That’s a super loooooong post. I nv even manage to read finish. But all I know is…, hang on there girl!

Bless your relationship, bless it good!

]]> By: Alice http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8687 Alice Tue, 20 Jan 2009 18:10:14 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8687 you know what I feel like hugging u right now. *big warm teddy bear hug* you know what I feel like hugging u right now. *big warm teddy bear hug*

]]> By: Steffie http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8685 Steffie Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:43:30 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8685 Hey Suet :) I've being reading your blog avidly and never left any comment but this post really came close to the heart :( I'm on the verge of having an LDR in 3 weeks time :(( sigh. This is going to be hard and I hope we can make it through. All the best to you dear :) Hey Suet :) I’ve being reading your blog avidly and never left any comment but this post really came close to the heart :( I’m on the verge of having an LDR in 3 weeks time :( ( sigh. This is going to be hard and I hope we can make it through. All the best to you dear :)

]]> By: sherlyn http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8684 sherlyn Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:33:02 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8684 halo gal~ i m here again.haha...act i think every couple experiencing quite similar cases as urs...like me n my bf...haha my bf use to be insensitive sometimes...but i m the one who cant keep *ANYTHIGN* in my heart..so i will jz tell him *EVERYTHING* ..we fight a lot too sometimes! but then jz view it as a *qing qu* then will be better :p anyway..may i know wat is * LDR* ?? sorry if u think i m stupid enough to ask tis question cz i really don und wat it is :p halo gal~ i m here again.haha…act i think every couple experiencing quite similar cases as urs…like me n my bf…haha my bf use to be insensitive sometimes…but i m the one who cant keep *ANYTHIGN* in my heart..so i will jz tell him *EVERYTHING* ..we fight a lot too sometimes! but then jz view it as a *qing qu* then will be better :p anyway..may i know wat is * LDR* ?? sorry if u think i m stupid enough to ask tis question cz i really don und wat it is :p

]]> By: Emily http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8683 Emily Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:16:57 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8683 I'm so jealous of both of you..sigh..me and my ex couldn't work out our LDR issues so before I went overseas we broke up. The sad thing was we both still love each other very much.. I’m so jealous of both of you..sigh..me and my ex couldn’t work out our LDR issues so before I went overseas we broke up. The sad thing was we both still love each other very much..

]]> By: vOon http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8682 vOon Tue, 20 Jan 2009 15:36:25 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8682 omg!! at last I get to find someone that is same! I hate sleeping too cause everytime when I go to sleep, I need at least 30 minits! if fall asleep d, any sound even those soft wan also can wake me up, then very hard to sleep back d..so sien T_T anyway..bout ur LDR, no worries...been following ur blog for quite some time d but 1st time comment...I've been thru LDR before, argument sure got..but maybe u can take it as a good thing cause good argument can be mean as good communication, is better than those that angry of each other but cold war. most importantly is u guys trust each other, guess that's the most important thing, but I think u n ur bf have a solid relationship, so it will not be hard for u..although mentally gotta suffer it when he is not there for u...but U CAN DO IT! omg!! at last I get to find someone that is same! I hate sleeping too cause everytime when I go to sleep, I need at least 30 minits! if fall asleep d, any sound even those soft wan also can wake me up, then very hard to sleep back d..so sien T_T
anyway..bout ur LDR, no worries…been following ur blog for quite some time d but 1st time comment…I’ve been thru LDR before, argument sure got..but maybe u can take it as a good thing cause good argument can be mean as good communication, is better than those that angry of each other but cold war. most importantly is u guys trust each other, guess that’s the most important thing, but I think u n ur bf have a solid relationship, so it will not be hard for u..although mentally gotta suffer it when he is not there for u…but U CAN DO IT!

]]> By: Jaclyn http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8681 Jaclyn Tue, 20 Jan 2009 15:00:22 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8681 i see my future in my bf =) u knw, i knw. That kind of feelings. hehehe. still need some warm up everytime. but things will get better =) im still putting effort, much effort in it so that I'd be able to enjoy all the way long. u'll understand ^_^ kan??? i see my future in my bf =) u knw, i knw. That kind of feelings. hehehe. still need some warm up everytime. but things will get better =) im still putting effort, much effort in it so that I’d be able to enjoy all the way long. u’ll understand ^_^ kan???

]]> By: Tracy http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8680 Tracy Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:58:18 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8680 For the past 6 years, almost 3 years me and my bf were in a LDR. I know exactly how you feel and I'm sure nothing can come in between a couple if you REALLY REALLY put in some patience and tolerance. Every fight is a new lesson.. I don't know how I survive all these years but its definitely worth the waiting. Fingers crossed to all LDR couples out there and especially to you and Barry! For the past 6 years, almost 3 years me and my bf were in a LDR. I know exactly how you feel and I’m sure nothing can come in between a couple if you REALLY REALLY put in some patience and tolerance. Every fight is a new lesson.. I don’t know how I survive all these years but its definitely worth the waiting. Fingers crossed to all LDR couples out there and especially to you and Barry!

]]> By: Pammy http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8679 Pammy Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:54:32 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8679 Hi Suet, I've been reading your blog for sometime and never felt the need to comment - although all your posts are very interesting - because you always have heaps of comments on your blog. Haha. But I felt the urge to give you a big hug to tell you how much I respect you for your patience and perseverence. I know I could never do that. I am impatient and spoilt. Maybe that's why I don't have and don't deserve a boyfriend. Heh. Hang in there, tomorrow will always be better than today. Hi Suet, I’ve been reading your blog for sometime and never felt the need to comment – although all your posts are very interesting – because you always have heaps of comments on your blog. Haha. But I felt the urge to give you a big hug to tell you how much I respect you for your patience and perseverence. I know I could never do that. I am impatient and spoilt. Maybe that’s why I don’t have and don’t deserve a boyfriend. Heh.

Hang in there, tomorrow will always be better than today.

]]> By: ping http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8678 ping Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:31:23 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8678 hi suet!I feel the need to comment! you write each bits of LDR perfectly well. Thats how exaactly I felt when I was LDR for 9 months. Upset tick, cries a lot tick, talk less tick, sigh. I guess its all worthwhile when we meet them again. hi suet!I feel the need to comment! you write each bits of LDR perfectly well. Thats how exaactly I felt when I was LDR for 9 months. Upset tick, cries a lot tick, talk less tick, sigh. I guess its all worthwhile when we meet them again.

]]> By: xiangyun http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8677 xiangyun Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:14:15 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8677 OMG Suet Li Liew YOU ARE MY IDOL WTF. Have I told you that yours is my favourite blog? After reading this entry, I feel that the fights and emo-ness with my bf was really uncalled for and silly. I have to understand that LDR is already a difficult thing to do and I shouldn't make it harder. I just told my bf to read this entry and he told me he read it already this morning (even faster than me!) cos he has your blog on his Bookmark (my influence) hahahha. You're such an inspiration and when I think about how hard LDR is, I think about you and Barry wtf really! Thank you again. OMG Suet Li Liew YOU ARE MY IDOL WTF. Have I told you that yours is my favourite blog? After reading this entry, I feel that the fights and emo-ness with my bf was really uncalled for and silly. I have to understand that LDR is already a difficult thing to do and I shouldn’t make it harder.

I just told my bf to read this entry and he told me he read it already this morning (even faster than me!) cos he has your blog on his Bookmark (my influence) hahahha. You’re such an inspiration and when I think about how hard LDR is, I think about you and Barry wtf really! Thank you again.

]]> By: lynn http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8675 lynn Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:45:46 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8675 suet li, thank u so much for this very timely post. i think while i know the theory of it all, i needed a reminder and your post has done just that, in reminding me why i agreed to go into a LDR in the first place. all the best to you and barry :) suet li, thank u so much for this very timely post.

i think while i know the theory of it all, i needed a reminder and your post has done just that, in reminding me why i agreed to go into a LDR in the first place.

all the best to you and barry :)

]]> By: Cruel Angel http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8674 Cruel Angel Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:34:31 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8674 Suet, i lost.... LDR defeats me... 3 months after i came Japan, then i was dumped... Nomatter how hard i tried, she just left. 5yrs relationship cant stand for 3 months distance.... Suet, i lost…. LDR defeats me…
3 months after i came Japan, then i was dumped…
Nomatter how hard i tried, she just left.
5yrs relationship cant stand for 3 months distance….

]]> By: Michelle http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8673 Michelle Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:21:15 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8673 Not all LDRs work. My hostelmates did not have a good time with them. :( You're one tough person. Not all LDRs work. My hostelmates did not have a good time with them. :(

You’re one tough person.

]]> By: lind http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8672 lind Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:55:56 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8672 sigh, suet li youre a saviour you know? this post came up at just the right timing. my bf and i have been together for about 2 months only, and cos we just finished college, we're both going to study in Monash, but I in Malaysia and him in Australia. i admit la, i really couldnt take it at first, i had so many doubts and all, and then he kept asking me whether i trust him. i mean, i do, but theres all these stupid nagging doubts at the back of your mind. questions like "what if he finds someone else there?" you know those usual questions? aih, but he's always been so honest with me and so patient that i feel bad for feeling that way. he trusts me a whole lot. whats more, we're both doing engineering so he worries about me more cos i'll be surrounded by guys all the time. sigh, i cried everyday when i got the news about a week ago. he promised to call at least once a week but i dunno whether thats really enough? i really admire you and barry when you guys had the 12 hour difference and you still made it through. recently my bf has been busy trying to get ready for australia, ie. looking for accomodation, etc etc. so then i get all upset cos over here when he's so busy we RARELY talk, and im not exaggerating. like today we didnt talk at all until 7.30 pm? i was so upset la but hes always so understanding that i feel unreasonable sometimes. but i cant help feeling that way sometimes. i get angry that he doesnt make time for me even when he's busy. is that wrong? i worry more when he goes to aus cos like over here we dont spend much time together when he's busy, what more when he's getting used to a new environment and all? sigh i dunno why im telling this to the whole world. honestly, maybe because i need to know that LDRs do work? or maybe cos i need someone to tell me that its okay that im feeling this way? or that its not okay? im confused. =( and omg, so long im so so sorry =.=' but i do feel better after reading your post. thanks suet li ;) sigh, suet li youre a saviour you know? this post came up at just the right timing. my bf and i have been together for about 2 months only, and cos we just finished college, we’re both going to study in Monash, but I in Malaysia and him in Australia. i admit la, i really couldnt take it at first, i had so many doubts and all, and then he kept asking me whether i trust him. i mean, i do, but theres all these stupid nagging doubts at the back of your mind. questions like “what if he finds someone else there?” you know those usual questions? aih, but he’s always been so honest with me and so patient that i feel bad for feeling that way. he trusts me a whole lot. whats more, we’re both doing engineering so he worries about me more cos i’ll be surrounded by guys all the time.

sigh, i cried everyday when i got the news about a week ago. he promised to call at least once a week but i dunno whether thats really enough? i really admire you and barry when you guys had the 12 hour difference and you still made it through.

recently my bf has been busy trying to get ready for australia, ie. looking for accomodation, etc etc. so then i get all upset cos over here when he’s so busy we RARELY talk, and im not exaggerating. like today we didnt talk at all until 7.30 pm? i was so upset la but hes always so understanding that i feel unreasonable sometimes. but i cant help feeling that way sometimes. i get angry that he doesnt make time for me even when he’s busy. is that wrong? i worry more when he goes to aus cos like over here we dont spend much time together when he’s busy, what more when he’s getting used to a new environment and all?

sigh i dunno why im telling this to the whole world. honestly, maybe because i need to know that LDRs do work? or maybe cos i need someone to tell me that its okay that im feeling this way? or that its not okay? im confused. =(

and omg, so long im so so sorry =.=’ but i do feel better after reading your post. thanks suet li ;)

]]> By: ying http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8671 ying Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:28:41 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8671 u guys are so admirable!! u guys are so admirable!!

]]> By: Divz http://sweatlee.com/2009/01/19/ldr/#comment-8670 Divz Tue, 20 Jan 2009 12:12:36 +0000 http://www.sweatlee.com/?p=523#comment-8670 haha..yeap i knew u... :) but i don't think u remember me lor..as i was quite the silent one..what class were you in in standard 6? haha..yeap i knew u… :)

but i don’t think u remember me lor..as i was quite the silent one..what class were you in in standard 6?

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