Comments on: I have a dream

By: Peter Pan's Mommy

Peter Pan's Mommy — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 08:38:18 +0000

It’s ok. I’m about to be a mom and I still have no idea what I want to do in life!! *slouches*

By: wh

wh — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 01:53:12 +0000

eventually it doesn’t really matter what do u want to do, be or whatnot. i guess at the end of the day we just do what we gotta do, and what pays the bills. also, what’s wrong with pampering ourselves with some luxury stuffs once in a while

By: felicia

felicia — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 09:58:05 +0000

overthinking can be the bane of our lives or what sets us apart. =)

anyway, I don’t think you’d look back on this and think it’s bullshit. I think you MAY look back and think it was idealistic or naive, but you won’t be stuck in a hole in something unfulfilling.

*pats* I can so relate to 90% of what you just wrote. I guess it’s sometimes better when you know you’re not alone in your thoughts.

By: h

Sat, 27 Mar 2010 06:08:35 +0000

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By: lebam

lebam — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 10:16:01 +0000

sometimes knowing what you’re not meant to be is just as important..

good luck!

By: Nghi

Nghi — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 06:31:46 +0000

Thank you a whole bunch for this post since it captures lots of things that we students frequently get caught in.

-Long time lurker who rarely posts any comments-

By: steph

steph — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:55:21 +0000

grrrrrrrrr. i feel the same like you too. T.T

By: jewlee

jewlee — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 04:16:23 +0000

Hi Suet!!! =) I’m really feeling this post because i too have been feeling the exact same way. Even though we’re no where near it, mid life crisis? Just letting you know that you’re not alone. xo

By: hannah

hannah — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 02:02:11 +0000

I’m in medical school and I don’t ever want to be a doctor. I’m just trying to be a filial daughter.

It sucks. I wish I could run away. =(

By: Olivia

Olivia — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:20:36 +0000

That’s exactly how I feel ! I know what I want and don’t want but I can’t do anything in this restricted environment . And I’m starting to feel old and worried that I haven’t done anything with my life yet for me .

By: Norbaya

Norbaya — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 09:47:04 +0000

even if u ended being in a 9-5 job, i think it will be a job that you will like and love and sometimes hate especially when you have too many works and too little time. (ada ke orang yang tak pernah benci kerja diorang?)

Have a great study years..and good luck! you are lucky to have so many people who cares abt you (see the comments, they all rooting for you). Suet Lee fighting!~

By: melody

melody — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 05:15:06 +0000

i can’t wait for you to change the world!!!!!!!!!
woohooooooooooo!!!!!!
follow your heart and soar with your dreamssssss!!!!!!!!

By: x

Tue, 23 Mar 2010 03:54:55 +0000

Suet,u’ve definitely caught the essense of how many ppl (whos still in uni, who’s just graduated) and currently in the dilemma of finding their ultimate job!

Before I’ve chosen what I’m doing right now..I’ve applied to many totally different type of courses in uni and colleges coz I am fickle minded like that!Hehe, Faculty of Agriculture,Forestry, and Home Economics;Bachelor Of ScienceIn Human Ecology;and Diploma in Petroleum Engineering! I know I know, these are all in totally different categories! but guess what, I got into all of them so could u imagine what situation I was in! haha. decisions decisions! I was goin to stick to Petroleum eng. coz that was what my dad would have liked. He was actually really happy that I got into it!But my parents pulled me aside one day and asked me seriously whether I would be happy what I liked to do and got me to ponder. What do I see myself doing? I ran my whole high school life doing Sciences classes and art as a major hobby. I looked through the courses available and finally one caught my attention. Interior Designing. Then,I would never have thought my parents would actually let me do it!But they wanted me to decide on my own.
Fast fwd 3- almost 4 years later, I’ve graduated with a Bachelor Degree in Interior Design!I have a love hate relationship with my job!haha but most of the time I do enjoy what I’m doing.I’ve had 2 jobs since I’ve graduated. both 9-5 jobs. I apologise.I know I’m writing a lot. but I’m almost done here hehe. Anyways, I’m 23 this year. I know I wouldnt want to work for someone for long. But these jobs give me the experiences and knowledge in the field that I need for me to get closer to my goals. Live your life without regrets. Your life’s already so colorful. Keep it that way and don’t get discouraged!
x

By: lin

lin — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 21:31:58 +0000

A Time for Everything
1 There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:

2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,

3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,

4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,

5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,

7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,

8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

this is actually from ecclesiastes 3..im not sure if it helps..but yeah..this is your time to search:) God bless!

By: Joanne

Joanne — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 15:28:00 +0000

This is exactly what I feel NOW. Not long ago, I thought I know what I want very well. Just recently, I have the urge to venture further and try sthg that I am capable of back home instead of being in the lab from 9-5 in a foreign country which actually comes with a higher pay.

So what now? Passion or living?

I am wondering myself….

By: valerie

valerie — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 09:27:11 +0000

Yeah I’ve been through that stage too.. And I still dream of doing big things. Reality Is cruel though. I’ve got a feeling you might like this song: John mayer’s waiting on the world to change. Maybe you will be inspired!

By: SamuelGoh

SamuelGoh — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 08:46:12 +0000

dude, u have no idea how much u’ve written is what’s on my mind.. these days i’m always caught between getting good results in uni and following a set career path, or venturing out and risking doing not so well in uni; i think about it even as i sleep! it’s especially hard when you’re making money off sick people but hey, that’s life right.

I guess be set and get a stable career first; anything else, make it a hobby.

By: Gin

Gin — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:09:20 +0000

i dont know what i want but i know what i dont want. kekeke. lines from christina vicky barcelona! *o*

By: aud

aud — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:09:19 +0000

wtf ooib sent from your cool phone hahaha

talk to u abt this on msn la wtf

By: Michelle Chin

Michelle Chin — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 03:31:32 +0000

I still have this dream that I’m going to be a psychologist one day and help teenagers with anorexia and I’m not giving it up yet.

Also, there’s always such thing called part time volunteering in case you do some job you don’t like in the future.

My mom would tell you this: Don’t worry too much of the future. Just live today.

By: strawberry

strawberry — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 02:32:11 +0000

i used to feel that way! when i was very young i wanted to help animals but reality hits in and i ended up in a 9-5 desk cos it puts food on the table. i dun work to buy luxury bags or whatever, just for a living. but lately, lately this feeling of “where would i be if i had followed my dreams then?” keeps becoming stronger and stronger. it may be good from another perspective, like i finally got this “urge” to just heck everything and just do what i really want to do, but the saddest thing is i’ve already wasted my youth in the 9-5 job, that golden period when you have energy, the dreams, the faith, the hopes and everything to go conquer the world and change the world in what little ways you can. i am living my life exactly the way i dun like it – go with the flow. i can just foresee myself when i am 80 yrs old, lying on my bed and wondering if i had chosen my life another way, would i feel happier and fulfilled in my life? how do you even know if your life is fulfilled or happy when you only get 1 shot at it, and u dunno what you’ve missed when you choose this option instead of another?
haha sorry for the long emo post but what i want to tell you here, Suet Li, is i used to think like you too but unfortunately reality beat me down. looking back at my life, i knew what i could have differently. the most important thing is find your own passion and find a way to make reality and your passion exist mutually. we need money to make a living, that’s a fact, but you can make money by doing something you immensely enjoy, even though it pays little but the feeling you get from it is priceless.
you can consider working with kids, as i remember you are a huge kids lover. just dun do anything else that you feel “you should do” for the sake of making a living. you will end up becoming a walking mummy, like me.
ok time for me to shuddup hahahah but i FEEL so strongly about this topic!!! we COULD really be long lost twins!!! HAHAHAHHA hope you’ll find your path in life soon!

By: Siah

Siah — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 23:12:14 +0000

I feel exactly the same too! Doing Uni right now is a rat race everyday, trying to survive each semester without having the time to pause and do something really meaningful. I’m glad to know someone out there thinks the same though! Don’t lose sight of that bigger purpose of yours =) I know I haven’t lost mine. YET. We shall prevail and spread 大爱! -_-

By: bs

bs — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 22:59:42 +0000

“I know what I’m not meant to be, but I really don’t know what I’m meant to be. I know what I don’t want, but I’m finding it so hard to know what I really want. ”

Exactly. Same here

By: ubikentang

ubikentang — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 22:31:48 +0000

exactly what i have been thinking for the past year – passion vs money vs living my own life vs the family responsibilities that i have to shoulder vs many other things. you totally captured the essence of it. i guess that’s life for us.

By: Baz

Baz — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 21:50:51 +0000

you don’t know what you want to do because you haven’t found something that you enjoy doing and matches your values. there are well-paying jobs in finance that are noble, eg. development, microcredit, etc. you could also think of most legal jobs as benefiting someone somewhere indirectly. i-banks and financiers “steal” from middle class folk, but that money goes to financing someone else, who may be hiring other middle class folk, or even poor mexicans wtf if that’s what conerns you. what i’m saying is that even if you think an industry is unethical, someone deserving still benefits in an indirect way.

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